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Handling a Long Delay Before the First Date
As frequent readers know, I’m a big advocate of meeting early when using online dating. I won’t get into all the details here but if you’re interested on why I feel this way you can check out my...
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Being Aggressive About Meeting without Scaring Her Away
If you’ve read my dating guide, you know I’m for meeting quickly when using online dating. However, there are times where the approach of trying to meet quickly may not go over well with who you are...
View ArticleAvoid Late Night Emails: Good Idea or Over-Thinking Things?
It’s a situation many of us have been in: you decide to check your online dating account when heading to bed and before you know it, it’s 2AM and you’re considering sending an email to someone new. But...
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Dealing with Strong Emotions before Meeting in Online Dating
How do you handle someone who is sharing strong feelings toward you in online dating when you haven’t even met yet? Or looking at the issue the other way, how much of your feelings should you share...
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Top 5 First Date Ideas
Planning where you’ll meet for your first date can be challenging, especially early on in your online dating experiences. For me, early on I thought every date needed to be an all-out affair with a...
View ArticleSafely Dating Multiple People on Match.com?
Some of my most popular articles are in regards to women who are struggling to get the man that are dating exclusively to take their Match.com profile down. This is driven in part because Match shows...
View ArticleAvoiding Being Overly Critical of Yourself on First Dates
How do you respond when you think you’ve made mistakes on a first date? Do you think you’re “bad” at first dates? I find many people think this but in reality, they are doing fine. I get regular emails...
View ArticleRecovering from a First Date Blunder
There are times where a first date is going great. The two of you are finding a lot in common. Then you say something to be funny or without much thought and realize you’ve offended your date. Suddenly...
View ArticleFirst Date Safety with Online Dating
You’ve talked to your potential date for days, weeks, or sometimes months on the dating website. Maybe you exchanged numbers and spent time texting each other. Then, you get the invitation to lunch,...
View ArticleMy Second Online Date – The “Too Good to Be True” Date
I recently spilled my guts about my online dating hesitations and the first relationship I was in that came via an online match-up. To date, I have only met three men in person after meeting on the...
View ArticleDoes Asking a Woman Out Quickly in Online Dating Work?
I’m a big fan of getting to the first date quickly in online dating. I wrote about this in detail in my article on planning the first date. I didn’t realize this when I started my website, but it turns...
View ArticleIs Every Person You Meet Horrible…or Something Else Going On?
There have been times in my life, often at work, where someone has pointed out a way that I could improve how I’m doing things. I’m almost always surprised when I receive this advice: mostly because I...
View ArticleThe Right Way to Ask What Went Wrong
In my last article, I wrote about a pattern I see in giving dating advice: one where a person assumes everyone they meet is doing something wrong where in reality they are the one creating the...
View ArticleOnline Dating Around Valentine’s Day
For singles, Valentine’s Day can bring one stinging reminder after the next of a person’s solo status. The onset of advertisements ranging from heart-shaped confections to fine dining promotions can...
View ArticleMy First date success or failure?
Hello everyone – I am happy to announce that I had my first date. We met at a funky little coffee shop, not the average Starbucks. I normally don’t like when people only post one profile picture, but I...
View ArticleHow to deal with nerves on a first date
You’ve been talking with a match online and the time has come: it’s time for the first date. Being prepared can help tremendously with the first date jitters. You can read Brad’s guide to online dating...
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